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Dharma · 09-02-2007, 06:30 AM

I never said she has to feel guilt.

"I wanted to just be friends again." <--- the tone of her first post was of making a course correction, not severing ties. My answer is following that post. To keep the friendship and make it nurturing again she needs to look at herself and not the mirror.

Yeah ending the relationship is fine. But if I spent 5 months being uncomfortable I'd want to get something out of it. Maybe she wants to dig a little deeper. Maybe she'll tell me to go away.

09-02-2007, 06:30 AM	#8 (permalink)
Dharma Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: NM, USA Posts: 986	I never said she has to feel guilt. "I wanted to just be friends again." <--- the tone of her first post was of making a course correction, not severing ties. My answer is following that post. To keep the friendship and make it nurturing again she needs to look at herself and not the mirror. Yeah ending the relationship is fine. But if I spent 5 months being uncomfortable I'd want to get something out of it. Maybe she wants to dig a little deeper. Maybe she'll tell me to go away. __________________ --There's nowhere to go, nothing to do. My blog -- New content coming soon.