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Old 09-02-2007, 05:54 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Dharma View Post
To deal with this you're going to have to look at yourself. And it seems there's been 5 months of blaming life on the other guy and no self-inquiry into how you fit into this experience. What are you trying to tell yourself about you under that victimization you're feeling?

If you want a clearer picture of what is up inside you, look at him as a mirror of yourself. You probably don't want to go there, but it's where you'll find your answers.
I think that your views are more biographical than anything else...

The relationship is no longer nourishing for bluskygirl and she decided to put an end to it... what's wrong with that...??? And, why should she feel guilty about it...???
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