Dear Bluskygirl,
I was the same like him before. Do you know why?
I think man who have less relatiuonship are like that. I have the same case as you but I'm slightly younger.
Many months ago, I broke up with my ex. When we are in relationship, I also message her or everyday tell her how much I need her or how much I love her. It's actually normal for guys who have less relationship experience. Here's my point of view about him:
1. When he try to tell you how much he needs you and love you all in a sudden, he is a family man. He put high priority on love and relationships. He don't know he is annoying you but he is express his love to you. He might just be young and less experience.
2. When he talk about the future like marriage or kids this kind of stuff, tell him straight that you are not looking that far and you want to just be with him at this moment. He will know what to do instead of trying harder.
3. When he became a friend of yours, he will still think that there's a high chance to be with you again. That's why he is so concern and sensitive about you.
This is a good man you can choose to be with. If you are looking for a short term relationship, he will not suits you. But if you are looking for a father, he will be the best choice.
He will make sure he take care of you and the family fully. He'll rush home after work and spend all the time he can to be with you. The most important thing is you need to start accept his weird being.
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