There are two good questions to ask other people when you want to improve your relationships with them:
1. On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 1 being low and 10 being high), what do you think is the quality of our relationship/friendship/family?
2. What would it take to get it to a 10?
You don't have to do what the person asks you to do, but this is a good exercise to find out where you stand and how to improve the quality of your relationships. |