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Originally Posted by bluskygirl  How do I move beyond the discomfort to help him? |
I don't think that once you have become lovers with a friend and stepped beyond the boundaries of friendship that it is possible to go back and just be good friends again...
You both shared something... you both did it willingly... no one owes anyone anything... what is left for you to do... is to explain to that person that he... and he alone... can find his own path... and that you staying close to him would not be doing him a service... but that it would actually complicate matters for him...
I do wish you the very best of luck... and congratulate you on being so sensitive on that issue...
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