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SweetMelissa · 08-31-2007, 06:32 AM

I think you're being too hard on yourself. I know lots of people second guess themselves the same way you've described, but it's really not healthy to obsess over encounters like that. That worrying just exacerbates your issues in my opinion. Just try to relax and be able to laugh at yourself when you're flustered.

08-31-2007, 06:32 AM	#4 (permalink)
SweetMelissa Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 21	I think you're being too hard on yourself. I know lots of people second guess themselves the same way you've described, but it's really not healthy to obsess over encounters like that. That worrying just exacerbates your issues in my opinion. Just try to relax and be able to laugh at yourself when you're flustered.