NotesMaeve, I know what you mean...whenever a guy calls me "sweetheart" it's like a super-hypnosis-ray-gun; all the little hairs on my neck stand up, I lose the ability to speak, my skin gets all itchy and my muscles go sort of slack. It's more like horror than pleasure, but a little of both. Kind of like when I hear someone chewing gum while they're on the phone with me. Funny -- even thinking about that brought up the hairy-mute-itchy-slack response. Is it possible I have issues?