Yeah, see... I get creeped out by those kinds of things! Not *too* much - but - it can smack of desperation. I guess the last relationship I had where I was truly showered - with poems, post cards, gifts - was with a man too insecure to be himself! It didn't take me too long to figure out he lied about almost everything, just little silly stuff, like whether he worked that day or not. I figured his gift-giving was just trying to make up for what he believed he was lacking.
So - I get suspicious when I get too much of that kinda thing.
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