[joelyle]

Her actions will be consistent with what she says she wants; She knows what she wants and knows how to get it. She understands that she is more than her body and her mind, that she is a spiritual being and that beauty has much to do with her view of herself. Yes, there must be that initial attraction. She realizes that she is much more than her roles (mother/daughter/employee). She is playful, capable of intimacy (this goes beyond the physical), she is able to be vulnerable/open/welcomes risk, she can be KNOWN). Challenging, diplomatic, intelligent and mature (in touch with reality). She is in a state of constent change (as I am).