Jim, there's a lot to be said for constant reassurance that you're still there for your partner, still love her and still want to be with her. Not saying that regularly will, at least for all the women I've known, make them wonder whether or not you really love them. I'm not saying that's right or wrong, but it's certainly been my experience.
I tell my wife and son I love them all the time, several times a day usually, and I mean it every time. If nothing else, it fosters closeness and, as I mentioned, provides some reassurance, if only a little.
It should also be stated that, if your words are true, real love will be reflected in your actions toward your partner everyday. That's what really counts.
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