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Originally Posted by Namaste I'd say you have a very vivid imagination and you can empathise and associate yourself with the film characters to a great degree. And while Ace Ventura's character is just too exaggerated and caricature-like, American Pie's teenagers are much more realistic which makes you feel what they would have felt in the portrayed situations.
My boyfriend is like that, he sometimes literally needs timeout during reality and reality-like TV shows (like The Office) when he feels uncomfortable for the characters. So you're not alone!  |
Perhaps you're right, Namaste. Probably that's why I haven't finished watching "Saw"; it was not scary but very painful for me. But what should I do about these feelings?
For now I can see only two possible solutions:
1. I can "suffer" through unpleasant moment to allow myself to enjoy the whole experience. I'm doing it now.
2. I can stop watching TV and going to the cinema, but that means surrendering to my emotions and skipping a lot of great movies. I can also choose only "pleasant" films, but that's seems unreliable and just wrong.
I know there's a third solution. The one that will enable me to watch anything I choose and enjoy the experience. I just have to find it.
Maybe the real problem hides deeper in me?