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Originally Posted by Shamou  She is twenty three years my junior and she sees me as a rock of stability and a source of guidance in her life... I see her as the seventh wonder of the world... the ideal combination for mutual happiness...
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You old dog! Yowza.
That's wonderful.
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Originally Posted by Angela Just as Shamou does, I think men really want to make the woman they love happy -- I think that's very important to men. Right, men?
It's not always possible for a man to read a woman's mind, especially early in the relationship. Why wouldn't a woman generously and lovingly let her man know what would make her happy -- like receiving love letters? Wouldn't a man feel grateful not to have guess all the time (and suffer guessing wrong, sometimes?)
I think it's a little stingy to treat a man like Lancelot, sitting around waiting for him to figure out what works and what doesn't. Sex, communication, affection, ... wouldn't you want your woman to let you know how to please her, without her making demands? And if Maeve can suggest something that many women in general like (a note of loving acknowledgement and appreciation), wouldn't that help, too?
Nuthin' wrong with that, is there, guys?
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Agreed there, Angela. I consider it a privlege to do nice things for Slamhot, and it's just nice when it gets returned, not because you expect it, but because, well, it's just nice.
I think it'd be interesting to see what men really enjoy that women do. I see so many men complaining they can't get women, but the guys who have it figured out just seem to grasp it so well.