Just as Shamou does, I think men really want to make the woman they love happy -- I think that's very important to men. Right, men?
It's not always possible for a man to read a woman's mind, especially early in the relationship. Why wouldn't a woman generously and lovingly let her man know what would make her happy -- like receiving love letters? Wouldn't a man feel grateful not to have guess all the time (and suffer guessing wrong, sometimes?)
I think it's a little stingy to treat a man like Lancelot, sitting around waiting for him to figure out what works and what doesn't. Sex, communication, affection, ... wouldn't you want your woman to let you know how to please her, without her making demands? And if Maeve can suggest something that many women in general like (a note of loving acknowledgement and appreciation), wouldn't that help, too?
Nuthin' wrong with that, is there, guys?
Of course the vice-versa goes, too.
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