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Originally Posted by 999GEORGE  definitely a case of losing attraction. we had a few arguments that seemed to really bother me. i did not discuss it with her for a while & let myself stew over it. i know this was a bad decision too. |
Then the hope is the attraction can be uncovered again. I think it's easier to work on the issues and find a way to have a heart to heart with her. Nothing like that to rediscover attraction. As opposed to just trying to do the motions physically and thinking that will turn it all around - maybe that will but it would just be a physical thing, you need to figure out how to reconnect then get physical naturally, imo.
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part of the reason this is so freaking hard is that my partner has been my best friend for years. now i have treated her like ****.  |
Then use that feeling to guide you. As a message of what you want and don't want. Tell yourself the only reason you did make out with a mutual friend was just so you know what you don't want and don't want to do.