Things would work better if you knew what you want. It seems like on one hand you want to be in this relationship but then on the other hand you are not really attracted to this person - rejecting her advances. So your appraoch is to go through the motions to see if you can generate the attraction after the fact? Is that what you are thinking of doing? I haven't done that so I don't know how well that will work for you. I mean, usually I've been attracted to someone and I didn't have to figure out why I reject advances or try to go through motions to see if I am attracted.
Losing attraction is a different thing than not having had attraction at all with someone. Sometimes the loose of attraction is from other stresses that once acknowledged the attraction comes back. But is sounds like you don't have any attraction to even remember with your current so called partner.
Your confusion is also present with the mutual friend. Making out and petting - but then you say there was no passion? Ha? Why make out and touch without any passion?
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