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Originally Posted by 999GEORGE  ...however, i still have not been sexually attracted to my partner.... i spent a long time fantasizing about other people. even chatting a few of them up. ... found her visually unattractive & to have unattractive habits....
should i tell my partner i kissed this other person? |
999George, it is really rotten to let your "partner" believe she is in a relationship with you. Don't tell her you kissed someone else; tell her you are letting her go with love so that she can find a real partner.
Then do the work on yourself to see why you would put yourself into a romantic situation with someone you are repulsed by. Please do this before you torture another soul.