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Originally Posted by Mark Lapierre  Does your college have any counselors? |
Tons probably, I go to UW-Milwaukee, although I wouldn’t know where to go, or who I’d be looking for.
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Originally Posted by Livgivare Don't know anything about if anyone have noticed it yet. But your vivid imagination would be hugely used if you used it on writing short stories or books about this theme. Just try to use your own life and write about it, use other names ofcause and places. Maybe this will keep you occupied with the same thoughts but on another level, and the shame of this whole thing will disappear pretty fast. At least try to make a cartoon or short-list or anything artistic with words that are your thoughts. |
I’m not sure if I could really let the whole world know about all the personal secrets I have, it would feel kind of embarrassing. But I do work to keep my mind preoccupied on other things, but every now and then…ugh, just wish I could forget faster.
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Originally Posted by SmellyOrc I'm kinda in the same boat as james. I feel you man, I really do. And don't take that the wrong way 
Thing is with me though: on the one side I don't WANT to stop thinking about her, its like one of the few things that keep me entertained. On the other hand, it does distract me.
I know how not to think of her, but I don't want to. It's very... annoying 
Just wanted to get this out of the system  |
I completely understand, with me, though I’m not sure if I still *want* to be thinking of her or not, because I’m trying not to think about all of it anymore. But then again, its really hard to let all of it go, especially since nothing like that has ever happened to me before.
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Originally Posted by ZHereford Quite frankly I think this woman has led you down the garden path. She toyed with your emotions for her own questionable purposes. She was dishonest and deceitful. For some reason she had something to prove to herself and she used you to do it. No wonder you're having trouble coming to terms with it. You didn't read her signals incorrectly. What you were unaware of is her motivation.
Don't allow yourself to be a casualty of her game playing any longer. You read it all correctly, what you didn't read correctly was her reason for doing so. |
Thanks, as I did say I ended contact with her. I probably still don’t know what her motivation or games were; maybe I just don’t understand women well enough.