We cannot assume to know where someone is spiritually or anything else. We can read the symptoms, we can read the facial expressions and body movements, but we can't really know where they're at totally. The exception to this would be those who are experienced spiritual people and KNOW how a person talks, and what they say, reveals their condition. But that's getting off the topic.
If we all search a little deeper, beyonf the perceived "care" and concern for loved ones, we will not only find some degree in falseness with the emotion, you will understand the universe's concern for you. That same Love...your concern for the loved ones...is ten times stronger and more sincere, regarding you. So your own feelings are actually God "speaking" through you. Ponder that a bit more and you can almost touch the very cord that links us all together.
You've heard it said that we're "all connected". Well, there's one way of seeing it.
And it is the Beasts' intention to create the illussion that the connection does not exist. SO...if we become spiritually strong, we no longer hear the Beasts' lies: we're connected to the universe, and it comforts us with the knowledge that ,despite everything that will go down, we will all be together at the end of it. We need to remember each and every person came here with specific life-experiences their greater self-being saw necessary for further development.
All through history people have suffered horribly. The Shift doesn't resolve that immediately. What it DOES do...and the spiritual growth does...is show us how WE, individually...have contributed to it. When we see this, then we begin to dismantle those traits we carry which contribute to the greater suffering.
"There is none righteous: no, not one."