I know I post this everywhere, but let me do it again?
"Letting Go"...A Beautiful Quote and The Heart of Profound-Self-Help.com
Like this one...I see it so clearly and you can feel it in my replies (I hope because that's in me)
To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
When those quotes become you (the enlightened half of them), not just something that you mentally get, but that comes from the pores of your being, then know that the voices will stop in your head.
Instead, YOU will be a light unto others helping them with their voices.
If the voices are there, the confusion is still there, but you're on the path to self, you are moving and not static! The journey is about "living and learning" not "thinking and analyzing". Try all you ideas! But be careful and watch everything.
Why?
Because regardless of whether you knew what you were doing or not, you're stuck with the consequences of anything that you didn't understand. That's a fact of life. Everyone makes mistakes because no one knows it all or can know it all. We all have to step into the fear of the unknown and get experiences in order to grow. And thinking is not an experience, just a tool to try to decide which experience to try next.