I just wanted to say goodbye one last time before this forum was closed and thank you again for the replies. As for AlltogetherNow I can assure you I have better things to do with my life than waste my time making up stories for people on a forum. I will take your comment as a compliment though as I want to be a writer like Stephen King and Bret Easton Ellis. I was going to get my wife to join this site who may have been able to clear some things up for you but as it is closing down it would be pretty pointless now. I am not an expert on pregnancy (as I mentioned) but I know my cousin who saved herself for marriage knew she was pregnant less than a week after she got married too.
Years of trauma have not been resolved as I mentioned on my previous post and there are still a lot of things we have to deal with. It took Hailey close to seven years to make love to me and she still is not entirely comfortable doing it yet and talked about this with me yesterday. We have only had sex twice and are not having numerous wild sex escapades or humping our like rabbits. Not that we are going to but you should get my example. Hailey is still dealing with a number of issues such as anger issues, her problems with males, being able to talk thoroughly about her tension etc.
I hope to see some of you guys on other places in the future.