Originally Posted by Philemon
You have a few good thoughts worth considering here, but also a lot of assumptions that aren't true. Thanks for posting
My major point is that if you don't actually like this girl it's already over. Having to talk about problems is the problem. You have two types of problems. Constructive problems and abstract problems. She might be bi-polar or ADHD but you'll just ruin the relationship by trying to fix it.
I've done the same type of thing. It's the sex that has your mind messed up. Figure out why you love her. Let me give you an example. Jenna Marbles on youtube is so successful because guys are falling in love with her personality.
I can already tell your ego is in the way of seeing the truth of how you're acting. You can't change or fix her cause she doesn't want to change.
On a scale of 1-10 how hot is she? That way I'll be able to judge how much the puddy is messing up your mind.