Originally Posted by nistacular
you have my sympathy... that sucks! Well I can certainly relate to such nonreciprocating feelings (mainly throughout high school for me). My best advice is to try not to dwell on it any longer. If you feel like she owes you anything, try to decide exactly what that would be (apology, or explanation, or anything). Then, talk to her just once more, about that. If not, then try to move on. Hope things get better.
Thank you! I am already moved on brother. After her request we said good bye in good manner and said "God bless you" to each other with calm and departed. I am happy for this kind of send off. As a lover I must have given her nice goodbye and I did and thankfully she did too. My confusion is her state of mind. why suddenly like this after all these years and her contradictory statements as I mentioned why why why. I know it's all push-ups from my mind but I know it will take time