ROYSTER'S FILTHY LITTLE SECRET
I am terrible at spelling, still. On my forum there's a built-in spell checker. I have never been on a vBulletin forum that had one.
So I meant prescendent.
The way I evolved was to address my own internal problems and hang-ups first. In fact, most spiritual practices request this. As we discard our old dysfunctions, new "brain space" opens up, and we become more intuitive. Our experiences along the way...though many may seem unrelated...link up to a full equasion.
The same pattern of learning / growing is seen in someone asking "What is the meaning of life?" and demanding the answer right now, on their terms. Fact is, if we do our own spiritual maintenance, the answers to our questions come in due time, with what we've learned along the way, and at the time we will best experience the answer. And not on our terms, but the universal terms accepted by universal minds. An agreed-upon language, sort of...and it is so in order for there to be no question of doubt. This is the distinction between knowing and intellectualizing.
The best starting point is dismantling the belief system we were born into, and forced to accept. In short, redefine everything for yourself, over time. KNOW what is a lie, and what proves to be truth.