Of course change is possible! And you can be grateful that you are willing to change -- many people go through their whole lives being resigned and inflexible. Suppleness and willingness to change are what will keep you young your entire life!
Maybe in addition to wallowing in your mudpile, you're also overwhelmed by all the possibilities that are open to you. A great place to start is to determine your values and declaring your purpose. Steve Pavlina has plenty of great articles on the big site to get you started. Once you've determined what you really want and what inspires you, you'll be drawn to take inspired action out of those values and stated purpose. Once you have an idea where you're going, you'll start to captain your own ship.
Don't worry about getting it "right." Just starting to look is a wonderful first step in sorting out the values and declarations that will lead your smack into a life you love. And those will change over time, too, most likely.
In addition to looking at what you want, start looking at what you're willing to let go of that doesn't serve you. Throw the contraband overboard.
ok, that's enough sailing metaphors for the day.
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