Originally Posted by Criseyde
Next time she doesn't want to talk about something, don't press her -- give her space. Tell her you'll help her if she wants. Continue to be as loving and understanding as you can. Bit by bit, she may come around and start trusting you. Or she may not, and the relationship may end. But if she does, it would be the best gift you could give, and either way, you'll have done your best.
I do agree. Give her space. Everytime you will help her then when she will learn? You must throw light on the path and ask to walk but if she is unable to do then please leave. Love and fear are opposite. When love is fear won't be there (specifically this kind of)