[carenkh]

From the forum rules:

Exercise good judgment, reasonableness, and mutual respect - This is a community for smart people who share an interest in personal growth, so please treat it as such. Personal attacks as well as profane, pornographic, racist, sexist, or otherwise demeaning or offensive messages will not be tolerated. Recognize that there's a human being behind every post, and behave accordingly.

and

Exercise cultural and religious sensitivity - A wide variety of belief systems are represented here. Feel free to challenge any belief system, but honor others' right to choose their own beliefs. It isn't necessary to be "politically correct," but it is necessary to show respect.

Just a reminder.