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Originally Posted by TipToe  When I die, I won't remember this life and anyone in it. |
In my humble opinion, this is not actually how it works. My understanding is that you remember everything while between lives. That's the "real world". And yes, you will see your father again, and yes, he will know you. You will also remember all the other great relationships you've had with him in previous lives. You will both have a good laugh about it when all is said and done. And possibly share a brewyski
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Originally Posted by TipToe If my father reincarnated or will reincarnate as a child in another country, he won't remember me. He won't remember what we went through together, the songs he used to sing to me when I was a child, the vacations we went on. Thinking about this has made me very depressed. I've even sort of detached from my beloved mother who doesn't understand why I'm so distant. I'm distant because she'll die too and won't remember me either. I feel like there is no meaning to life and to loving someone because all their memories of you will be wiped out when they die. |
It may interest you to know that souls who are close to one another incarnate in groups. They are part of the same "soul cluster". So it is conceivable that your father would not incarnate until you were there to also join him in a reasonably close parallel of timing. Also there is a good bit of "subjective time" spent between lives just resting and rejuvenating, learning and enjoying the company of old friends, planning your next incarnation, in whatever illusory environment you collectively create. This subjective time is usually equal to or at least close to the amount of time you spent in the previous incarnation.
It may also interest you to know that a part of us never leaves the spirit world, and is always available to greet another close soul when they come back to the spirit world, even if they had since incarnated in a new body, with the concomittant temporary memory wipe that is so characteristic of entities upon this planet.
Just try to keep in mind that the whole cosmic process is not as unfeeling and uncaring as some are led to believe. There is great love and compassion for all of us. More than we can possibly imagine.