I agree with Ron. If you are able to articulate your self, join in! You can add meaningfully to the conversation and help those of us participating out. Even if it is just sharing your circumstance and/or life with us. Of course, you don't have to if you don't want to.
I like the positive posts in this thread too.
Originally Posted by FelineNostalgia
I just wanted to thank the people who posted in this thread, I'm in a pretty agonising place also. It's nice to read intelligent positive posts like this.