that's an excellent point... I think it's all a game because obviously people aren't going to get to know you in the first 5 mins of a convo. So it's because they don't know who you are that it becomes a game.... Thing is, in most human relationships, the end goal isn't always to get to learn each other, and build something out of it... I just wish people took more time to build personal connections than fake on the surface-type relationships.
We introverts gotta stick together