Originally Posted by MessyJenny
If really successful means being smug and beating up your wife like my husband did to me then why not go ahead and teach him to be that way.
After all we all want a rough bad boy that lies around the house when he gets older, cheats on his wife, lies to her and beats her up when she breaks up with him.
I think I’ll go with the funny guy next time.
That was a misunderstanding. Only a p***y would do such things to a woman. What I meant by rough masculine personality is not someone who is evil but someone who is strong and capable physically and emotionally. Such a man would risk his life to protect his woman.
I bet this guy is perceived by girls as boring and unattractive because he lacks personal power.
He is easily discouraged when he gets rejected and is sexually frustrated which inhibits him from trying.
The only way to solve this problem is to approach until some girl says Yes even if it means getting rejected by hundred girls.
I still have similar problems as you OP, even though I've had more than 10 girlfriends. I get an adrenaline rush every time I have to show a girl I like her. And for me the anxiety completely goes away once I've successfully kissed a girl.
There is no way around that anxiety and I'm going to approach 100 girls as a personal experiment to see what happens and how many of them will reject me.
I'll do this very directly and try to keep things simple. No one will find out what I'm doing because I'm not gonna tell anyone not even my closest friends. I'll will probably look like I'm having huge success with dating and an abundance of girls without trying. In reality I will probably get rejected by 7 girls out of 10. These numbers are pure speculation I'll never know until I've done it.
I'll quote this from another forum where someone did such thing:
When I first got really serious about talking to women, i went and tried to get 100 rejections starting on my 21st birthday, i never got close to 100 and had a phone full of numbers, stuff like, when do i call back, how do I act busy, that's stuff that you don't even have to ask because you ARE busy. You call when you freaking can lol. You are not going to bother with the girl that flakes on you 2 times beucase you had 2 other girls that would not mind spending the night with you and you aren't going to give this one the time of day. And all that comes from just working numbers. |
I had more sex in my first 6 months of being 21, then i have had in the the previous 20 years, plus the next 2 years of my life until i met my now wife, combined, and I don't think it's even that close. was bagging seriously 3 or so women a week at one point.