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Originally Posted by DerekB 
Tor: As far as asking girls out or things like that, my attempts thus far to follow that advice have yielded what at best I would term catastrophic results. If I expected success, I would be asking girls out right now rather than writing this post, and probably would not wait several years between rejections before trying again.
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Reread this please and compare with what I quoted above:
"It is very important that you do not expect success. By re-framing a goal as getting rejected you will destroy any mental barriers to approaching.
You sound like a fat person who never tried exercising, or a fat person who tried running once and seeing how difficult it is started contemplating suicide, while the solution is to expect to suck at first and build up endurance over a period of time. "
I was not referring to your weight. I was actually making a parallel with your attitude towards approaching girls.
I looked at your photos. It was immediately obvious why you're not successful with girls. You look like someone I could easily beat up. Now don't get me wrong, I think you have great potential to become a bad-ass. It's just that you need to become more masculine and rough.
There's movie called "Sex drive". Watch some of it, you'll see the example of a kid who looks more nerdy than you but is a complete bad-ass in his attitude.