Originally Posted by DerekB
Tor: As far as asking girls out or things like that, my attempts thus far to follow that advice have yielded what at best I would term catastrophic results. If I expected success, I would be asking girls out right now rather than writing this post, and probably would not wait several years between rejections before trying again.
Reread this please and compare with what I quoted above:
"It is very important that you do not expect success. By re-framing a goal as getting rejected you will destroy any mental barriers to approaching.
You sound like a fat person who never tried exercising, or a fat person who tried running once and seeing how difficult it is started contemplating suicide, while the solution is to expect to suck at first and build up endurance over a period of time. "
I was not referring to your weight. I was actually making a parallel with your attitude towards approaching girls.
I looked at your photos. It was immediately obvious why you're not successful with girls. You look like someone I could easily beat up. Now don't get me wrong, I think you have great potential to become a bad-ass. It's just that you need to become more masculine and rough.
There's movie called "Sex drive". Watch some of it, you'll see the example of a kid who looks more nerdy than you but is a complete bad-ass in his attitude.