I'm a 20 yr old chick from the U.S, still a virgin, don't long to lose my virginity, doesn't see sex as a test or exam that I run the risk of failing or failed. In fact, considering that I'm a minority, the doctor's always ask me 4-6 times if it's true that I'm a virgin and then compliment me or get all shocked because I am. I love dancing, don't like parties. Energy overwhelm.
OP, do you think you're suppose to have lost your virginity by now or is this something you genuinely want? Just asking for clarification.