Originally Posted by Andrew Gubb
I've had a few experiences by now ^^ woo -- so yeah, so far they have been. BUT you need, need, need to find people who are into polyamory, and bear in mind your chances to convert someone who wasn't already into it are low. Definitely relationships with people who have the standard mindset are not going to work like that. Most people have the duality between emotional connection and sleeping with more than one person. They just can't connect emotionally unless they think there's going to be monogamy in there. (Actually they're often just not that good at connecting emotionally but that's another story).
Oh awesome XD
Its always nice to hear that
Yeah I know , neither of us are going to change each others mind , were both sticking to our guns haha. To me it just seems so fear based ,the principles of monogamy and that particular mindset.
I did know two people who liked the idea of open relationships/polygamy but I would avoid attaching myself emotionally to them because they seemed to see it as a free ride from showing any kind of courtesy if you will to the person they were with at the time , I'm sure there's a lot of those about , but you run that risk with monogamy anyway I suppose
I'm having major deja vu!