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Originally Posted by FelineNostalgia  Hi interesting posts, just to add I normally find fetlife.com caters for exclusive interests sometimes.
I've always felt polygamous even though I'm in love with someone who's monogamous now.Even though I value this desire in myself the qualities in this person I can't help but admire and attach myself too. But It's good to even talk to people who feel the same way, I normally get looked at like I'm a horrible sex crazed wench if I talk about it.
I'm curious though, when I was single and put a red tape around the subject of 'going steady' with anyone, I found it very difficult to get quality interactions. People seemed to run a mile if a wanted cuddles after in which case I was like steady on! Being nice doesn't equate to being clingy.
Does anyone find poly or open relationships emotionally open? |
I've had a few experiences by now ^^ woo -- so yeah, so far they have been. BUT you need, need, need to find people who are into polyamory, and bear in mind your chances to convert someone who wasn't already into it are low. Definitely relationships with people who have the standard mindset are not going to work like that. Most people have the duality between emotional connection and sleeping with more than one person. They just can't connect emotionally unless they think there's going to be monogamy in there. (Actually they're often just not that good at connecting emotionally but that's another story).