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Originally Posted by SweetMelissa  I always try to assert myself in a calm way and not act like we have to argue in order to voice opinions. |
If at all possible, the best way to "voice an opinion" is to do it in such a way that the conclusion will bring a "win, win" resolution...
That is, where nobody loses and everybody wins...
It some cases, it might not be easy... but the old adage that says, "
A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still..." will always be true...
Rarely can points of view be imposed by facts and logic because, as Dale Carnegie said, "
When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bustling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity."
Sad... but true...
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