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Originally Posted by ZephyrusX  "It is the weak who are cruel. Gentleness can only be expected from the strong" - Leo Roskin - |
great quote! - so true - and so great to see how supportive everyone is - i can't think of any advice to add just try to focus on the positive and keep your head up! put up images of anything that makes you happy - images from favorite movies, favorite musicians, anyone or anything inspirational - you can print these out at a library for pretty cheap!- make a list of favorite things like foods, scents (maybe get a new cologne or aromatherapy - one you can afford) - treat yourself once a week to your favorite food - maybe get a small plant - one that is easy to take care of - or a small pet - like a fish - easy to take care of - (go easy on yourself if something happens to the plant or fish, sometimes that happens, you can always get another) -
these are things i've been doing for myself and they are working - i have images up that i printed out online from a bunch of my favorite movies - i printed some in black and white and some in color, and i made a cool collage and framed it with a really inexpensive frame from big lots - just something to remind me every single day that there are awesome movies and great actors in this world - that cool things do exist - and i play my favorite music every day - eventually you start realizing new reasons why you like the things you do - for example one of my favorite movies is reality bites - and the reason is it's because a bunch of people who are laid back, easy going - but having a very difficult time in life because of circumstances and other people who are bullying them - it's also about people overcoming their fears and going for things that make them happy in life - and even at the end they all stay very laid back casual - good people who have goals and work ethics - but they just have kickass personalities - great senses of humor - they all help each other out - and of course they threw true love in there haha
so keep your head up! put up visual reminders of positive things - your favorite things that you have found going along life - the things that when you hear them metioned you go - oh my gosh that's my favorite movie! or that's the best band ever! etc - eventually you might find those people become your role models too! they might give you more help to find your way along your path