Originally Posted by FORk
As I told you, I am 25 and have lost 6 years, which have destroyed me. I know everyone seem to have enjoyed my BIG fall and I really feel unable to study to focus. I totally lost my focus but want to regain my lost strength. COuld you please give some options?
Here is one option that my uncle taught me on a hunting trip:
When people fall short of accomplishing what they want, it's sometimes because, for whatever reason, they got lazy and didn't do enough, or go far enough, or they quit too soon.
Work is the key. People naturally want to conserve energy, to be lazy when they think they can afford to. And granted, everyone needs a little time to rest and relax. A little, but not too much!!
At the time he told me this years ago, it was because he was hiding something illegal he shot on the hunting trip and was working hard to bury it so he wouldn't be caught. He told me that the reason people get caught is because they get lazy and don't hide well enough, the evidence. He buried it so deep, I don't even think the devil could find it.
Okay, so the setting around how I learned that lesson wasn't that good, but I never forgot it.