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Originally Posted by plokoon  I believe if I had a girlfriend who stood by me and liked me for who I am, that would be all I need, along with my family and friends I have. Even if it were for a year, it would help boost my confidence, and maybe get rid of my anxieties because now I could say I did things like everyone else. But obviously I wouldn't just use a girl just to make me feel better, I would care for her as well. I am a man that likes to see people happy, and to help others. I also believe that people don't deserve anything unless they get it themselves and work for it, that's why I am trying to get rid of self pity. And so far its working out well. |
Aren't you really thinking co-dependency? If she helps me feel good, you will help her feel good?