there is nothing wrong with looking at porn & masturbating..yes, lying & hiding is not good. but she needs to get over it.. She should be thankful that you didn't have an affair like a regular guy would in a sexless marriage.
Sounds like she's not really trying.. If sex really hurts her then she should have no problem with seeing her gyn about it. You need to tell her that you cant live like this and you deserve to be with someone that wants you.
Last edited by IvyW; 12-12-2011 at 10:50 PM.