To finish my statement, this will be short because I'm going to go watch a movie...
For the past month or two, I've been dating this 41 year old girl who's been pretty awesome. I'm 20, about to turn 21 in March, and I've dated anywhere between 17-26 year old's max 29 and 32 something like that.
Anyways, the past 3 months of my life have been me pretty much meeting as many women as possibly, getting this relationships part of my life handled, and just exploring different options that I have with women, and it ended up being that my 41 year old girlfriend just happened to be the best matchup for me.
Now, I love all women, but there was just something special about this girl which really made me appreciate her not only as a woman, but as a human being.
Quoted from David Dieda's Book "Way of the Superior Man"
For many reasons, from biological to yogic, you are probably more sexually attracted to young women than older ones. Walking down the beach or street, your head is more likely to turn for a twenty year old woman than a sixty year old. This is quite natural. |
But there is more to feminine energy than this. Youthful sexual attractiveness is a temporary
aspect of a much deeper and more fundamental quality of feminine energy: radiance.
Feminine radiance is not only the flush of a young woman's cheeks or the glow of her skin, but is the shine of life force itself. A woman's true radiance reveals the degree to which she is open, trusting, connected, and loving.
Her capacity to love, in turn, allows her body to be moved by the power of life force itself. Herein lies the true nature of feminine radiance and power, far beyond the simple sexiness of a naive young woman.
The natural sexiness of a young woman will always give you energy. You never need to deny
this. But the awesome beauty and radiant ease of a deep woman can stop your mind, widen your heart, and suspend your body in the mystery of feminine grace, all in an instant, with a single gaze or touch, regardless of her body's age. And in relationship with such a woman, there are no bounds to the rapture which may resonate through your union. Boundless feminine love-radiance and temporary physical sexiness are both blessings; you must decide, moment by moment, and year by year, which qualities you will invoke and venerate with your attention, praise, and union.
As a woman grows older with wisdom, her "psychic weight" increases. She becomes a
"bigger" woman, able to influence her surroundings with stronger magic than a less developed woman.
She is able to read the signs of nature with great accuracy, as well as sway events with almost shocking reign. A superior man honors and appreciates this kind of magic, and knows that it complements his masculine style of accomplishment.
An older woman will also tolerate less of your ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ than a younger woman. Although this
might be one of your reasons for preferring younger women, you must choose your priority. If you find yourself attracted to younger women, be careful that you aren't trying to find an easy relationship with a woman who will let you slide. If your purpose is to become ever more free of your self-burdens and give your true gift to the world, then a spiritually mature woman—who won't let you slather in your comfy habits of security and distraction—may be an excellent ally for your journey.
I found that alot of what I read in "WoTSM" seemed to be spot on in regards to older women.
I found myself falling in deep infatuation with alot of younger women, but this is/was the first woman who I actually truly fell in love with.
I could relate to her not only as a man does to a woman but as a friend does to a friend and a human to another human (deeper/spiritual like connection).
She's smoking hot, she [s]awesome[/s] phenomenal in bed, and she's a great person to be around. I found that I actually enjoyed her as a person because she was secure in her femininity and sexuality, she didn't tolerate my BS (and I'm extremely thankful for that), we communicate openly and freely (no emotions lingering under the surface. If there's ♥♥♥♥ to say, then we say it.), and she doesn't smoke or do any drugs,
AND she keeps her body fit and in shape.
There are a whole bunch of other things that I could add to this, but I'm going to go watch my movie.
After meeting her and getting real close to her, I've developed a greater appreciation for women in general, and more specifically, older women.
So as a celebration, all women have free shots on me
(or free green smoothies; whichever is your poison)