I've always been a kind-of-attractive male, definitely above average. But for some reason I have never connected my looks with my self esteem. My brother used to make fun of me a ton though, for having long hair and various other things. Eventually that got to me and I started caring about the way I looked more. But as a naturally physically attractive person, I have never cared.... when people compliment me I don't really react. It'll make me feel awkward more than anything. Actually that's something I need to get better at, accepting compliments.... but yeah, I've never felt good or bad about the way I look.... in high school I rebelled, and argued with everyone about how looks shouldn't matter, which I still believe to be true to some degree. They matter more to some people. To me, they don't. I've dated a few different people, one was one of the most attractive people I've ever known, ever! But her personality was.... hyper, blunt, she wasn't too intelligent, and that bothered me... but when I was with this girl most people found unattractive, everything just felt right, because I loved her.... maybe not her body too much... but that didn't matter. As long as you have the right anatomy, personality trumps all :P
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