I don't believe in all this discussion about finding our true self. How can there be such a thing? It's largely determined by our childhood, people we talked to and what we learned. If we want, we can always unlearn those things. Of course, a lot of those things are very difficult to change. But if we truly want, I believe we can.
So everything is about becoming who you want to be. If you are happy with some of the things you are, then you can just be.
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