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Originally Posted by Criseyde  Do you care about your level of physical attractiveness (innate -- I'm not talking about grooming etc)? |
Not especially. I've always been attracted to a person for their mind (sense of humour, intelligence, ability to carry on a decent conversation, etc.). I certainly recognise very attractive people (men, particularly; I'm hardly immune to a "sexy fireman" calendar!), but as far as relationships (friendship, romantic, whatever) go, I'm not fussed. In fact, I, personally, have tended to be somewhat distrustful of very good looking men. In my unfortunate experience, they tend to be arrogant and they tend to be users. (I know this is not true of all good looking men; this is only my own experience.)
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Originally Posted by Criseyde Where is physical attractiveness on your list of desirable qualities? |
Errr, pretty low, actually. I did once have a good female friend who was extremely attractive. We're talking beauty pageant level of attractive. Super photogenic, adorable petite but curvy figure, gorgeous face, lots of naturally wavy dark hair. Just really beautiful. The thing is, though, she was also highly intelligent, very kind and loving, and a genuinely nice person. Basically, she had so many great qualities, the things I like in a friend, that her looks were not an issue, which is, as far as I'm concerned, should always be the case in relationships.