Oh, and I should add that the "things not working out" happens whether I've thought things through or just jumped and waited for the net to appear, as they say. I know two limiting beliefs are "I never think things through" and "I always make a mistake" because I was told those repeatedly by a family member throughout my life (I stopped talking to that family member).
But I can't figure out how to change it around without entering dangerous territory. My subconscious has been rebelling so much it's taken me to the point where I'm now the stereotypical always-borrowing-money-family-black-sheep who has come close to eviction twice. And no matter what anyone says about aw, go ahead, let yourself be evicted, don't resist, get real. You know eviction is not a good thing.