Hey Magura, I get your point. There is a real difference between the pain coming from yourself and others though and it's about understanding.
When you have suffered in your own pain for years and clear your slate it is important to realize that from that point on you are no longer clearing your own pain, but the pain of others. You shouldn't mistake these pains as 'your own'.
When viewing all the pains I feel now as the suffering of my partner, everything suddenly makes sense. The need, the pain, the anger, the frustration, the mistrust, they all explain exactly how my partner is suffering.
And yes you still need to stop suffering, but only because the world needs to stop suffering.
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