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Old 08-23-2007, 08:06 PM
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Hi geekchic9,

Great that you use that experience to grow yourself and move on to get a better person.

Lots of people really think revenging people who dumped them is fun and should make them feel sorry for what they have done. But we need to realize that we are different than them.

We love them even they dumped us. That's how great who we are. So, by hurting people we love actually hurt us 2 times or even 10 times more. Revenge actually hurt ourselves more. Instead of revenging, the best way is to move on and be more attractive, find a better person.

When we do so, we don't hurt them and we don't hurt ourselves too. We benefit ourselves and leave them jealous!
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