Originally Posted by quiethumir
What if I'm a little bit on the arrogant side? What's the motivation to change to become more humble?
The golden rule is.
I've done a lot of personal growth over the last couple years, and I can relate to what you said. What did it for me was that, if I expect to be treated a certain way by others, then I am required to hold myself to the same standard. I value being treated fairly, with respect, and in a polite manner. Though I at times have issues with being overly critical of people (in my head anyway, I don't go out of my way to insult people...), I realized that I needed to stop being that way because if I require people to treat me in a manner like I stated above, then it would be incredibly hypocritical of me to not hold myself to the same standard. I think it just boils down to having honor and integrity, personally.