In general, I would agree with abcbac. There are certain attributes about my self that are deal breakers insofar as that I am not willing to change them in order to establish a relationship with another person. Having said that, there are other attributes that I would be willing to change depending upon the context and the value of the relationship. It really depends upon how much you value so-and-so attribute and whether you are willing to change it because you value the relationship more so than the attribute.
In example, I may not be willing to give up my career to be with someone, but I would be willing to change my style of communication for someone that I love because I'm not particularly all that attached to the way I communicate.
Last edited by ZephyrusX; 12-04-2011 at 08:26 PM.