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geniegal · 12-02-2011, 05:25 AM

The important thing is that there may be deeper things going on you are not aware of. I have found that I've unconsciously indulged in behaviour that made me miserable in jobs and other areas but once I used self hypnosis I understood why: I was protecting myself, my ego could not believe I could handle being happier, taking more risks

If you don't work out what has made your job hard then you risk recreating crap for y self in your next one. Have you contributed in any subconscious way to your troubles? I believe we create our reality, which is painful initially ( taking responsibility for a job where I got hit every week was really tough) but the rewards are amazing in terms of lifelong happiness

Your title of this thread says to me you have very mixed feelings about quitting, equating it with immaturity. You could start by listing the things you get out of this situation even if they are totally negative (e g I used to blame the kids I taught for the reason I was disorganised, also i used to enjoy feeling morally in the right when others were rude etc) these may not be noble but they will be helpful

what happened with the job where I was hit was that it ended up being so awful that it pushed me to leave. I really had nothing to lose. That experience increased my courage.

If you want some ideas on self hypnosis fillow the links on my blog

Good lucjlk it's a wonderful adventure!

12-02-2011, 05:25 AM	#4 (permalink)
geniegal Senior Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 181	The important thing is that there may be deeper things going on you are not aware of. I have found that I've unconsciously indulged in behaviour that made me miserable in jobs and other areas but once I used self hypnosis I understood why: I was protecting myself, my ego could not believe I could handle being happier, taking more risks If you don't work out what has made your job hard then you risk recreating crap for y self in your next one. Have you contributed in any subconscious way to your troubles? I believe we create our reality, which is painful initially ( taking responsibility for a job where I got hit every week was really tough) but the rewards are amazing in terms of lifelong happiness Your title of this thread says to me you have very mixed feelings about quitting, equating it with immaturity. You could start by listing the things you get out of this situation even if they are totally negative (e g I used to blame the kids I taught for the reason I was disorganised, also i used to enjoy feeling morally in the right when others were rude etc) these may not be noble but they will be helpful what happened with the job where I was hit was that it ended up being so awful that it pushed me to leave. I really had nothing to lose. That experience increased my courage. If you want some ideas on self hypnosis fillow the links on my blog Good lucjlk it's a wonderful adventure! Last edited by geniegal; 12-02-2011 at 05:28 AM.