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If you know you can very easily replace your partner, then you will not put as much effort in to your relationship.
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i know what you're saying... but i think that if you're in a relationship with someone that you're
in love with, then you know that you could not just "
replace" your partner...
and you would have a
desire to put in the effort to make them happy.
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But if you do not have that fear of loss, then you will not have the required motivation to make much of the relationship.
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i don't think you should ever be in a relationship where your motivation comes from a fear of loss...or a fear of being alone.
you should be motivated out of passion for the
person and the relationship...
if you honestly think that you could walk away tomorrow and never look back, then you shouldn't be with that person to begin with.
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If you have a collection of, say, five girls, then of course you would not care so much if you were to lose one or two, right?
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again, i think the missing factor here is Love.
i know that it may seem like all girls are interchangeable, but when you meet "the one," it completely changes your perspective on things.
even if you're the master seducer, you won't want to be with anyone but
that one girl... 
that's just the way it is.
being able to attract anyone you want is certainly fun, but at the end of the day, it doesn't compare to the emotional fulfillment of being with
one person who means the world to you.
